我们这一群人!

我们常希望他人能够多欣赏自己,自已却经常忘了去欣赏他人.

或许这也就是所谓的自私吧?这尤以显现于我们得意之时, 我们会常常忽略身边的人和事.我们常常说的没关系, 而事实却有着那至关重要的联系.有的人查觉了自己的失误, 又不愿放下心去承认, 也只有将错就错, 狠干下去而不当一回事.

或许这也就是所谓的人吧?我们往往自以为是, 甚么事物多以我为先. 事原; 道理自是由我的观点出发, 鲜有人从其他的角度出发. 故而我们珍惜这一群人, 觉得这些人难能可贵, 敦不知我们就是造就这一切的其中一份.

世界的美丑

我们对于世间的美丑, 心里各有一把尺. 有的人要求外在表面的美, 有的人则选择了内在包涵的美.

然而, 外在的美往往会随着时间而改变, 而内在的美却是始终如一. 由于外在是直接的, 大部份时候我们都被其中的直接性所影响. 相反的, 内在的美是隐性的, 它是须要时间来体会的, 故而选之的人较少. 很多时候, 外在的美会随着时间褪色, 其原先表现的美也因此遂渐失去光茫. 至于不亮眼的美, 似朝晨的曦阳, 慢慢地放出它的亮光.

美好世界

前幾天，在路囗處發生了一場車禍，有人因而弊命，甚為他惋惜。

人的一生是如此短暫，我們怎么樣都得好好的運用它，多做點有意義的事情。然而不少人就不明白其中的道理而虛渡了大半生。什么明斗暗爭，時間己不夠用了，做這些事情又何苦？老老實實地去幹有意義的事，少了得失是非，世界不是會更美好嗎？

不敢說真話

今天翻閱報章，見有“不敢說真話”這標題，覺得有意思。在我們生活的大環境裹，許多時候，我們為了自己而都不敢說眞話。君不見自己生活的周圍都充滿了好些這類的例子嗎？

然而更可怕的是那不願說真話的例子。這一群份子表面仁義，一到關鍵時刻，總是話兒說一半，讓他人去曲解事情的正相，以達到自己的目的。好些時候我們也都落入這道聽途說之列，忘了自己應先理解再下定論。畢竟，在我們生活的背後還隱藏了許許多多事情的真相。

随想滴滴

几天前，食堂的一个莱饭摊结束了营业。

我鲜少到这摊贩买吃的，记得前后也只有三回，原因是每回的体验都不佳。尤以最后一回的接触，更让我避而远之。当时正为午饭人潮后，我到那儿买午饭，老板极力推消剩下的饭菜，弄得我不知如何是好。结果当天不单买了莫名其妙的剩菜，老板还乱算一番，让我花了冤枉銭。

我们一生也不外让人骗几回，学乖了自然也会懂得保护自己。这饭摊老板可晓知当众人都被骗过以后，怎么还会一再的上当，当上冤大头呢？故而我们一生得老实，多一点诚信，多为他人着想，我们也会适服些。

也说说道德

说到道德这个词，是应令人可敬的。然而近来的一连串的事件却令我感到可笑。首先是教管说要提倡道德教育，另一边则高薪养廉。想不到钱与道德相钩！心中不免想着，如果没有钱，道德又如何？如果没钱没道德，那所说的道德不是假道德吗？如果没有钱也对道德没有影响，那又何须以钱来利惑大众呢？再次以金钱利诱者来教道德是乎是有点可笑。记得过去长辈们总说言教不如身教，不晓得这类老师可有法子把学法教好？我怀疑。

希望世界

今天在友诺地铁站外，见一年迈老妇推车上的东西掉落满地，本想把车子了停下帮她，岂知不远处骑着单车的两位小孩，竟跑了过去伸岀援手。这一个幕虽只发生在那短短的几分钟，内心却高兴了好一阵子，毕竟这世界还是有希望的。说真的生话在这世界里，善心是可贵且髙超的。做了坏事的人，说什么道德、信什么教也全是枉然的。

My blog and Me!

Few days ago, a friend told me that she is frequent reader of my blog. What a surprise! I did know anyone follows my blog, so I am pretty happy after that.

I told myself to work a bit harder, update the blog regularly, however, I am still tie up with my work and very often I have difficulties in using the Chinese software due to my inadequate knowledge of “han yu pin yin”. It’s about time for me to learn them now. Many times, I do have difficulties in expressing myself well in English. I need to find ways to improve both my languages.

Lazy Me!

Have being lazy for a few days and it's already October.

Tons of work still remains as it is. There are just so many things for me to clear. Ideas have piled in my head, sad that I have only 24 hours a day and I need to sleep. Sometimes, I wonder if I ever can complete most of my dreams before I disappear from the surface of this world!

It’s seemed very unlikely. Very often, I am tired over the time fighting for more time. In the end, I am exhausted. I am!

What a day!

Today, I made a terrrible mistake! I have forgotten about my lesson and went home straight for dinner. My student was waiting at the studio and my phone went death just hours before the lesson. Whatever can go wrong went wrong.

Not having the phone numbers of the student, I have no way of contacting her. But because of the guilt, I tried some numbers not sure whether the numbers were right. No reply so far ......... and I can only wait and hope for the best.

What is LOVE?

Love is something not easy to understanding. You can feel it but it is rather difficult to explain. However, one thing I believe is important for love is: love is unconditional.

Why? Once the love is conditioned, love has boundaries. As there are walls built around love; love changes. That’s when you see the love between parents and children; husband and wife; brothers and sisters; friends changed. To me, everything at this point of time has downgraded to what I know as ‘Care’. Care is something that comes with conditions. When someone cares, there are things to be gained in the end. ‘Care’ can never be Love because love is much greater in strength.

The thought just hopped into my mind as I was painting a rose. I’m not sure why? Nevertheless, I named the work as “LOVE” and hope everyone love it!

什么是幸福？

什么是幸福？对于一些人而言，幸福是一碗热汤面，一张舒适的床。我们期待的点滴就造就了我们的幸福。

昨夜与枫谈到什么是幸福的当儿，不禁想到我们的幸福也因为个人的环境有所差异。往往我们向往幸福就处在我们生活里所欠缺的。往往我们认为当我们满足了自己所欠缺的，生话就自然会幸福美满。不知由于我们的无限欲念，让我们无尽止的寻求自己的幸福。

幸福何处？幸福就在足下，幸福就在眼前。当我们懂得珍惜当下，我们就会感到幸福。

君子难为

要成为个君子，就得遵守君子的原则，要不然可能沦落为伪君子。。。

然而，要成为一个真君子并不容易。首先君子就得学会吃亏。君子说的是道理，遇到不讲理之人可先吃亏。

君子爱仁，故而不仁之事不想干，往往也因此吃了亏。反之，小人把大德仁义放一边，把握时机大捞一番。记得过去在职场上有位同事，私底下对老板怨言一箩，但总会看老板脸色办事，结果，老板喜欢，自己也大升。君子之人，直言不悔，得罪老板，怎不吃亏？

The good old days!

Few days ago, I met the Malay uncle downstairs. While we were chatting away, I realised that he actually stayed in my old neighbourhood. As I mentioned that, we had so much to talk about the Killiney Road we used to stay. The furniture shops, the famous coffee shop, barber shop, the barkery, the outdoor market, the auto-repair shops ....... Out of a sudden, fond memories came around, and for a while I felt so old. Tiverton Lane is no more there! I wonder how many of us still remember what were going on during those days? Hun........

学与非学

我们一生都不断的学习。但是，一个人如果没法虚心学习，那很难学到什么东西。 如果每一次经验分享，都是一个争辩的源头，那有什么意思呢？每一个失败总是伴着与己无关的理由，那学习又有什么理由呢？我们是不是先得静心聆听后，再细心的分析条理，进而加以改之？ 闭上心房的灵魂，可明白这个思维？

惜寸阴

静静地，时光流逝，不留痕迹。 两天前，学棣们聚而论画。有同学问起案上的一堆画。我说是一位友人几个月前从日本那儿带回来的毛边纸。看着看着竟看到画里夹着些许一年前的旧作。想不到自以为几个月前的事，竟也过了一个年头。

小时候，书本中教的、老前辈们所说的，对于惜光阴的事，我们到底听懂了多少？顿然措觉其中的真实性，不知道会不会太晚了？在忙碌的现代城市里，我们总是匆匆地为生活奔波，有多少人能够停下脚步，为自已多活一些？我希望能有多些人可以好好的活着。

Have been lazy for a few days! Thanks to Hong, she arranged an outing to Jurong Bird Park. What a break from my daily routine! Long drive to Jurong. Rain had just stopped, the path was wet but we have wonderful weather around. The walking was comfortable as we were shaded by a thick layer of clouds. Manage to see lots of colorful birds, many in close distance. As we walked, my camera was busy clicking away. I have not taking photos like this for quite a while. My mind was packed with colors, ideas, images details …..

累了！

累了！只见抹汗布依附在无人的帆布椅上。

多少天了？那空置的画板呆在墙边闲着。静静抬头看着天花板的灯，听着那悠悠的民乐，寻找的是一份创作的激情。或许这些日子过于投入，骨子里的灵魂困了，是好好休息一下的时候了。我累了！

生活就是这么般

不自觉的看到洒在满地的粉红花。

记得好几年前，无意间发现这花儿，从此它丰富了我的生活。我的创作，我的梦里都增添了一份色彩、题材。生活不曾寂寞，会寂寞的是人的心。生活就是这么般，只要你稍微注意，你不难发现新的事物，不论好歹都可以是丰富你生活的泉源。

一种幸福！

今天天气很好，上午开车到画室中，车窗可都没关上。不知此时又有多少人和我一起享受这好天气？

好些时候，拥有自然、简单的事物也是一种幸福。这是一种“没有”的幸福。怎么是没有的幸福呢？因为今天我没有遇着坏天气，这不就一种幸福吗？没有实也不是件坏事。想想没有疾病，没有是非不就是好事吗？生活里就有不少问题是因有而产生的。什么财富和权力而产生的竞争不就是件可怕的事吗

We always long for others to forgive our mistake and yet very often we are so unforgiving about others. When we are in trouble, we often prayed for a helping hand and yet we often stand aside when others are in need. We often help those who we think deserve to help, and sad to say, with unintentional motives behind. For us, we are so selfish that we only look into our needs and forgotten that there are others like us who also need care, love and support from each other.

我们常渴望他人轻易原谅我的过失，却不愿轻易地原谅他人。当我们受困的时候，我们祷求有人伸出援手，自己却在他人在困难的当儿呆在一旁观望。我们总是以我们的私利分辨好坏是非。我们总是如此自私的对待自己的欲望而忘却自己的一旁也有须爱与关怀的一群。

Life is unpredictable! Just you thought you can live on your own, surely in point of your life, you need friends, and person you can trust. Why are being so cure to ourselves? Why must we shut ourselves from the rest? While there are so many sad incidents surrounded us, are there nice things around us too? Surely there are!

生活是充满变数的！正当你以为自己能独自生活，生命中的某些时候，我们还是须要朋友和知交。我们又为何如残酷地把自已给封闭？虽然我们的周遭都是残酷的现实，我们的周围也拥有不少美丽的事与物，我肯定有的。

Ugly and Beautiful!

Sometimes, I wonder if everything in life must be beautiful? Is there something wrong with things that are ugly? I am sure, in many instance, is the perceptions we have making the differences.

我经常独想，这世界的一切是否都应美好？丑陋的一切就一定有存疑吗？我以为这美丑是一种观念，而这美丑的观念则凸显了我们对事物的喜恶。

What’s wrong with ugly? If everything in the beginning begins with ugly is beautiful and beautiful is ugly, we might like ugly even more. Ugly can be beautiful too. Therefore in life, if there is imperfection somewhere, let it be. For many of us who are so blessed with good things around, we often find ourselves still searching for ‘beauty’ to fulfil our infinite wants. The greed within us is making us missing all the beautiful things in life!

所以说这丑本身并不是个问题。如果当初丑的就是美的，而美者却是丑的，我们可能更爱丑尤胜于今曰的美。丑陋也可以是美丽的。因此当我们生活有所欠缺时，随缘便是。好些时侯，当我们缠绕在幸褔美好的当儿，却无边无界的追寻我们心中欲求的美好。我们无尽止的贪念，让我们错失了周围许许多多的美！