It is hard for us to realise our weakness! Worst still, as others pointed out to us, we stand firm and believe that there isn't anything wrong with our weaknesses, and if there is something wrong, it must the others' imperfection that contributed to the problem.
There isn't anything wrong by standing firm on our ground. But it is also important for us be sure of ourselves. As when others commented on a situation, we should always evaluate the situation with an objective mind. Many times, we are overran by our own stubboness, which lead us to blind spots that create failures in our life. Worst still, it might also lead to trageties for our love ones.
So, self-reflection is a vital tool in perfecting ourselves. And more importantly, we should focus on what we did and not to direct problems to others. We should start to change ourselves first before we could begin the changes in others.
